Carolyn Goodman

Attorney At Law

Do I Need a Lawyer For A Separation Agreement?

By Carolyn Goodman

Sometimes people call and tell me that they have been thinking about using an online service to prepare their Separation Agreement and they want advice as to whether or not an attorney is really necessary.  

Usually, people think about this option because they are hoping to save money.

While there is no legal requirement that you have a lawyer, it is important to consider that when you sign an Agreement you are legally binding yourself to the terms.

It is extremely important to understand the issues that should be included in a Separation Agreement and to understand exactly what you are agreeing to.

It is very difficult to use a generic Agreement without understanding all the issues that must be resolved when you end your marriage.

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What is the Difference between a Divorce and an Annulment in DC?

By Carolyn Goodman

I receive calls from people asking if they can get an Annulment, often because they have not been married very long.

Annulments are very uncommon in DC. An Annulment is a ruling from the court that your marriage was not valid.

It is as if the marriage never took place. This is different from a Divorce which ends your marriage, but your marriage is still considered valid.

To seek an Annulment in DC, there is no residency requirement if your marriage was performed in DC.

This means that you can file for an Annulment if your marriage was performed in DC but you do not live in DC. You can also file in DC if one of you lives here but were married outside DC.  To file for Divorce in DC, there is a residency requirement.

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Is A Prenuptial Agreement Necessary?

By Carolyn Goodman

Whether or not to have a Prenuptial Agreement, commonly called a Prenup, is an individual decision.  Sometimes people tell me their parents have asked them to have one prepared because they will be receiving a sizable inheritance one day and want it to be protected.  What is clear is that a Prenuptial Agreement is not just for wealthy people or people with children from a previous marriage who are marrying again.  It is commonly being used by young people getting married for the first time.  If your marriage does end, having a Prenuptial Agreement will help to reduce the emotional and financial strain of a divorce.

There are many reasons why you may want to have a Prenuptial Agreement.

  • You may own a house or condo, a retirement account, a stock portfolio, or part of a business, or own a rental property and want to protect it.  You may be the beneficiary of a trust set up for you by your family.
  • You may be receiving an inheritance in the future or part of a family owned business and want to be sure that it will remain your separate property.
  • You may be helping pay for schooling for your future spouse and want to be certain you are not responsible for student loan debt if the marriage does not work out.
  • You may have children from a previous marriage and want to be sure they are protected.

There are many other reasons you may want to consider a Prenuptial Agreement.

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Why Is It Important To Have A Separation Agreement?

By Carolyn Goodman

I receive many calls from potential clients who tell me that they are ready to file for an Uncontested Divorce.

When I ask some basic questions regarding property and retirement accounts, sometimes it becomes clear that it would be best to prepare a Separation Agreement so that all potential issues, such as property ownership, debt division, tax issues, child support, and custody, etc. are resolved prior to filing for divorce.

It is also a very good idea to have a Separation Agreement even if you are separating and are not sure if you will end up filing for divorce.  You need to be protected so that you are not arguing over every issue that may arise.  An Agreement will resolve the issues so you can move on with your life without constant disagreements.

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Physical Custody and Legal Custody in DC Divorce

By Carolyn Goodman

There are many ways to determine who will have custody of your children when going through a separation or divorce in DC.  

There is a distinction between physical custody and legal custody.

  • Physical custody refers to the living arrangements for your child, i.e. where your child eats and sleeps.
  • Legal custody refers to the legal responsibility for your child, i.e. the decision-making related to your child’s health and medical treatment, education, and general welfare.

You and your spouse can negotiate any type of custody arrangement as long as your child’s best interests are served.  It is best if both you and your spouse have continuing contact with your child.

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How Do I File For Divorce In DC?

By Carolyn Goodman

Filing for divorce in DC is not a difficult process.  However, before you can file for divorce in DC, you must be sure that all of the issues between you and your spouse are settled.  Otherwise, you will have to file for divorce and go through the process as if the divorce is contested. This process is longer and more expensive than filing for an Uncontested Divorce.

Once you have settled all the outstanding issues with your spouse, such as division of your marital property, custody of your children, child support, division of retirement benefits, division of debts, etc., through a Separation Agreement, there are two other requirements that must be met before you can file for divorce in DC.

First, you must meet the residency requirement. This says that one of you must have been a continuous resident of DC for six months before you file for divorce.

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Do I Need A Separation Agreement?

By Carolyn Goodman

It is a good idea to have a Separation Agreement in place.

You are not required to have a Separation Agreement. However, it is a good idea to have one if you have any issues that remain unresolved with your spouse.

This will help you avoid a lengthy court process in which the Judge will have to decide things for you.

Verbal agreements between you and your spouse will not be enforced by the court. Only written agreements that are signed by both of you in the presence of a notary can be enforced.

A Separation Agreement, sometimes called a Property Settlement Agreement or Marital Settlement Agreement is a written contract that protects you and helps make sure that your spouse lives up to his or her obligations that are outlined in the agreement.  

An agreement will clearly spell out the benefits you are entitled to and the obligations you have.

A Separation Agreement resolves all the issues and in doing so protects you and your spouse for the future. It answers questions such as:

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What Happens To Our Home When We Divorce?

By Carolyn Goodman

A common question people ask me when they think they will separate and divorce is, “What will happen to my home?”

This can be a very emotional issue. The home may be associated with both pleasant memories and sad memories. There are several options to consider when it comes to the ownership of your home during divorce, and it is very important to discuss the various possibilities with your family law attorney.

There is equity in your home as well as debt. Home equity is the difference between the market value of your home (what you could sell it for) and the amount you owe on your home (your mortgage, line of credit, home equity loan, etc.).

Some of the options to consider are:

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What is a Separation Agreement?

By Carolyn Goodman

A Marital Separation Agreement or a Property Settlement Agreement is a written contract between you and your spouse.

It settles all of the issues that have arisen during your marriage.

The Separation Agreement spells out your rights and settles issues such as what will happen to your property, your bank accounts, your debts, child support, custody, health insurance, alimony, how retirement accounts will be divided, etc. It specifically lays out the terms of your separation and divorce, if you decide to proceed with a divorce.

What Information Is Helpful To Your Attorney?

By Carolyn Goodman

Your divorce lawyer will need basic biographical information from you along with financial information.

It is important to gather as much financial information as possible including a list of all assets (i.e. property you own, bank accounts, stocks, retirement accounts, etc.) and all debts (i.e. credit cards, mortgages, bank loans, etc.).

This information is helpful when preparing a Separation Agreement and is also necessary if you cannot settle your case and have to resolve it through the court system.

Questions And Answers

Your current situation has probably generated many questions. Here are some short answers to questions you may have about Divorce, Separation Agreements, Property Division, Child Custody and more.

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