Carolyn Goodman

Attorney At Law

Child Custody and Parenting Plans in DC Separation and Divorce

By Carolyn Goodman

 DC SEPARATION AND DIVORCE–CHILD CUSTODY AND PARENTING PLANS

We are living in difficult times with the Covid-19 crisis so it can be even more challenging when you wish to separate and you have children who are at home with a virtual school schedule.

When you decide to separate and there are children involved it is best to have an agreement for a temporary schedule for custody and a parenting plan.  It is best to have a plan in place before each parent has a separate residence so you each know when you will see your children and when you are solely responsible for their care. This is in everyone’s best interest but most of all it is best for your children to know where they will be each day.  This is important even for very young children.

There are many types of schedules that work depending upon each parent’s work schedule and the schedule for your children for school, activities and your child-care schedule. Your schedule may also impact how you choose to share expenses for your children and whether there will be a child support payment from one parent to the other.

It is best to speak with an experienced attorney who can describe various schedules that might work given your individual circumstances.  The divorce lawyer you speak with will also be able to explain how child support works and the ways in which you can work with your spouse/partner to take care of your children financially.

 

Understanding DC Legal Separation and Divorce

By Carolyn Goodman

I am asked often by potential clients whether they should file in the court immediately rather than try to settle separation and divorce issues out of court. In other words:

TO FILE OR NOT TO FILE: THAT IS THE QUESTION!

It is always best if you can reach a settlement related to the issues arising out of your marriage. Filing a court case before you have attempted to settle the issues out of court is more expensive, time-consuming, and a more emotionally difficult path to reaching a resolution.

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What is the Difference Between An Uncontested And A Contested Divorce?

By Carolyn Goodman

It is important to understand the difference between an Uncontested Divorce and a Contested Divorce in DC.

An Uncontested Divorce is one in which all issues arising out of your marriage have been settled and there are no outstanding areas of disagreement between you and your spouse.

A Contested Divorce is one in which you are unable to reach an agreement as to all issues either on your own or with the assistance of a family law or divorce lawyer.

Uncontested Divorce In DC

An Uncontested Divorce in the District of Columbia moves through the court system in a much quicker fashion than a Contested Divorce. It is also much less costly for both you and your spouse. To file for an Uncontested Divorce in DC, all issues between you and your spouse must be resolved, which covers issues related to any property you have including:

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DC Divorce: Who Gets the Dog?

By Carolyn Goodman

Pet CUstody During Separation or Divorce

Often pets become an issue when you separate.

We all love our pets and we consider them part of our family. This can be a difficult issue when you separate from your spouse.

  • Who will keep the dog?
  • Who will be responsible for daily walks, feeding, vet bills, making health decisions, etc.?
  • Will I be able to see my dog if my spouse has the family dog?

These are all important questions and can become a source of additional stress when you separate.  A Marital Settlement Agreement can include financial terms and other agreements related to the care of a pet after separation and divorce and whether or not the person who is not caring for the family pet on a daily basis still has visitation rights. You may want to consider who will be responsible for making health care decisions for your dog and whether the vet bills and dog-walking or boarding costs will be shared.

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Uncontested Divorce in DC

By Carolyn Goodman

I am contacted often and asked how to file for an Uncontested Divorce in DC. It is important to first decide whether your divorce is truly uncontested.

Even though you and your spouse may be friendly and everything is amicable, if you have any assets that accumulated during your marriage, even if you have kept most or all of your finances separately titled, you may still need to have a Separation and Property Settlement Agreement (Marital Settlement Agreement) to be sure you are protected in the future.

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Filing for An Uncontested Divorce in DC

By Carolyn Goodman

An Uncontested Divorce is one in which you and your spouse have resolved all issues in your marriage, for example, a division of your property, child support and custody or a parenting plan, division of retirement plans, etc. If you have worked out the various issues, it is important to have a written Agreement drafted that indicates how everything will be settled.  All potential issues, such as property ownership, debt division, tax issues, child support, and custody, etc. are then resolved prior to filing for divorce.

If you do not have a written Agreement, you may not be able to proceed with a simple uncontested divorce. In order to file for an Uncontested Divorce and attend a simple hearing, you must be able to show that all property and other rights are settled.

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DC Divorce and DC Prenuptial Agreements

By Carolyn Goodman

Enjoy listening to a recent radio interview in which I speak about a variety of family law issues such as DC Divorce and DC Prenuptial Agreements.

I touch on topics such as DC Uncontested Divorce, DC Contested Divorce, DC Prenuptial Agreements, and an assortment of other issues, including information about documents to have in place before you marry.  There is also a discussion about negotiating settlements rather than spending a great deal of family funds on going to court where you may lose control of the outcome of your situation.

There is also a discussion about having a Prenuptial Agreement in place so you can work out how you will deal with your family finances once you are married.  In addition, the interviewer suggested that it is best to speak with a family lawyer/divorce attorney so you know what your rights are and what documents you should have.

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What Happens To Retirement In Divorce?

By Carolyn Goodman

How will your retirement be divided in your divorce?

My clients are often surprised when I tell them that their retirement assets may be considered marital property. If you accumulated the funds during your marriage, they may be divided  as part of your divorce. However, you may have other marital assets to divide as well.  All of your marital property will be taken into account when deciding how to deal with your retirement plans.

It is important to understand your options so you can make an educated decision about what is best in your situation.

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Divorce and Separation Agreements

By Carolyn Goodman

When you and your spouse make the decision to separate and/or divorce, if you have children, their welfare is one of your major concerns.

If you choose to resolve things amicably, hopefully this will lead to a negotiated Separation Agreement.  You can tailor specific provisions in your Agreement to determine custody and separate access schedules so that both you and your spouse will have regular access/visitation time with your children.  

Moving forward and getting beyond the difficulties and resentments between you and your spouse so you can focus on the best interests of your children can be very emotionally challenging.

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Questions And Answers

Your current situation has probably generated many questions. Here are some short answers to questions you may have about Divorce, Separation Agreements, Property Division, Child Custody and more.

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