This is an article that appeared in the Washington Post column “Solo-ish” in which I was interviewed about housing and the impact of moving from your home during and after a separation and divorce in DC.

…Making things worse, from 2007 to 2014 the median U.S. rent increased by about 4 percent, from $901 to $934, says Apartment Lists’ Andrew Woo, while renters’ incomes have fallen by 14 percent. Rent is 60 percent of a person’s average wage and rising in top markets such as Washington, D.C., New York City and parts of Northern California, according to RealtyTrac. In the Washington area, for example, women earn an average of $61,718, versus $68,932 for men, according to the National Partnership for Women and Families. In Washington, the average rent for a two-bedroom apartment is $3,130, a level “that’s unsustainable without other income sources,” such as spousal and child support, Woo says.

These high housing rates play into uneven outcomes during divorce. “While not a lot of people go from a big house to a big house, in most cases, the higher wage earner ends up in the better neighborhood and house. This puts the kids in two different situations,” says Carolyn Goodman, a family lawyer in the Washington area who negotiates joint settlements to save costs. (She says the dynamic in same-sex relationships is similar.)

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